Solo Agers are adults over 55 who are living without the support of a spouse, partner, or children. Some may be parents, but due to circumstances, they are estranged from a child or children. Unique from those who are not aging alone, Solo Agers have many concerns they must navigate alone.

As we age, living independently can bring a sense of freedom and comfort. However, for many older adults who live alone, it can also come with a range of worries and anxieties. Here are 12 common concerns Solo Agers voice as they contemplate their present and future. There are so many more facets of life to navigate. These 12 concerns are just the tip of the iceberg.:

1. What if I fall or have a medical emergency and no one is around to help?
   The fear of accidents and not having immediate assistance is one of the most common concerns.
2. Will I be able to keep up with home maintenance and chores as I get older?
   Managing daily household tasks and home upkeep can become overwhelming as physical capabilities change. Finding reliable service providers is a challenge.
3. How will I manage my finances and be sure I don’t outlive my savings?
   Financial security is a significant concern, especially with the uncertainties of rising costs and healthcare expenses. Finding a trustworthy person to handle bill paying is a good idea for later in life but presents a challenge finding that person.
4. Who can help me make the decision to sell my house and move into an area with more social opportunities, medical care, and other services?
   Change is difficult. Leaving a home one has lived in for many years can create overwhelming feelings of loss. Finding a trusted real estate agent who specializes in this can make the decision, downsizing, and moving much easier.
5. Who will make decisions for me if I become incapacitated or unable to express my wishes?
   The need for a trusted power of attorney or clear legal directives becomes a pressing issue for many older adults. This is part of estate planning that can be done at any point and should be done with clarity of mind.
6. What will happen to my pet if I pass away first?
   A pet is a wonderful companion, but there are valid concerns about taking on the responsibility of caring for a pet later in life.
7. What if I become isolated or lonely, with fewer opportunities for social interaction?
   Loneliness and social isolation can have severe impacts on mental and physical health for those living alone. Since COVID, many people have not returned to normal in-person social activities.
8. Am I safe in my home, and how can I protect myself from potential intruders or scams?
   Security, both in terms of physical safety and from fraud, is an important concern among Solo Agers.
9. Will I be able to maintain my independence if my health starts to decline?
   The fear of losing autonomy and requiring assistance is a constant worry as health issues arise.
10. What happens if I can no longer drive or get around easily?
    Transportation becomes a major concern, especially for those who live in areas with limited public transit options.
11. How do I stay mentally and physically active when I’m living alone?
    Maintaining cognitive and physical health is a priority, but it can be harder to stay motivated or find activities that are easily accessible.
12. Will there be someone to care for me or check in on me regularly as I age?
    The desire for reassurance that someone will be there for regular visits or to provide care if needed weighs heavily on the minds of many seniors.

These questions reflect the anxieties that come with aging alone. Addressing these concerns can lead to a more secure and fulfilling life. Planning ahead and seeking out resources and building support systems can help ease and address many of these common worries.